Anonymous Anonymous Chin-Ning Chu Dan Millman Debbie Ford Deepak Chopra Delfin Knowledge System Dinah Mulock Don Miguel Ruiz Dr. Wayne W. Dyer Dr. Wayne W. Dyer Eckhart Tolle Eknath Easwaran Fr. Anthony DeMello, S.J. Gandhi Hans Margolius Jeff Maziarek Karol K. Truman Kim Allen Lynn Grabhorn Marianne Williamson Marie-Louise von Franz Marlo Morgan Martia Nelson Mary Evans Meister Eckhart Michael Tamura Nancy Zi Neale Donald Walsch Neale Donald Walsch Neale Donald Walsch Norman Vincent Peale Rachel Naomi Remen, M.D Richard & Mary Alice Jafolla Richard Carlson, PH.D. Samuel Smiles Sanaya Roman Shakti Gawain Stuart Wilde The Daily Guru Unknown Source Virginia Satir | Dinah MulockIn exploring the enneagram, Riso and Hudson have identified ‘lost messages’ that we needed to hear as children but didn’t. The absence of these words may be at the heart of our most basic fear. And unconsciously we may still be seeking to hear these words from others.
Review the following messages and note if any one touches you more strongly than the others:
1. "You are good."
2. "You are wanted."
3. "You are loved for yourself."
4. "You are seen for who you are."
5. "Your needs are not a problem."
6. "You are safe."
7. "You will be taken care of."
8. "You will not be betrayed."
9. "Your presence matters."
"Oh the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are -- chaff and grain together -- certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away." |